Of course you need to adjust the gifts to your husband :-) Mine would be rather confused to get 12 golf balls :-D
Day 3 of spouse encouragement challenge:
Still - don't say anything negative to your husband. May your words be only kind and loving and appreciative and encouraging. Count your blessings, in him, and let him know you are aware of it, think about it, appreciate it.
Make a list of how your life is better because he's in it, and share it with him.